Have you ever met a guy who was just so “nice”, and you wondered what was so special about his wife or girlfriend that she had managed to catch him?

Well, I’ll bet if you had the opportunity to get to know her, you’d discover that she was just as “nice”. And no, the myth about bitchy women always catching the great guys is just a myth. These bitchy women may have what it takes to catch the attentions of men, but not to keep them interested and attracted to them for very long.


This concept of being the wonderful woman in order to attract a wonderful man has a lot to do with the Law of Attraction.

“You get what you put your energy and focus on, whether wanted or unwanted. The Law of Attraction is neutral.

All forms of matter and energy are attracted to that which is of a like vibration.

You are a living magnet.

Energy attracts like energy”

To find out more about this powerful law, check this out: http://www.law-of-attraction-info.com/


So, if you are optimistic, a complaint-free zone (you don’t spend your every waking moment complaining about the weather, your job, the traffic and life in general), up-beat and confident – guess what?

Yes! You will attract the same kinds of people to you! And the same kind of man. J


But there’s more to it than that.

If you want to find and attract the kind of man who loves, cherishes, respects and cares for you, then you need to be this kind of woman first.

If you want to find and attract the kind of man who is optimistic, spontaneous, fun, sexy, attractive and self confident… then you need to be this kind of woman first.

How? You ask.

Well, start by being just a little more friendly, kind and generous to each person you meet, each day. No need to go and dish out compliments, hugs and smiles off the bat – your colleagues will think you’ve been body-snatched by aliens (unless you were this kind of person to begin with) – just start with little gestures of kindness. A smile, a genuine compliment, a kind word, an ear to listen.

These small positive changes will pave the way for your metamorphoses into that wonderful, generous, kind, loving, attractive, sexy woman – the kind of woman that every man wants to be with (even the men who are initially drawn to the seemingly attractive behaviors of the bitchy women!)

You have to be that wonderful woman first, before you can attract that wonderful man.